
Yesterday I was browsing a copy of
Mary Ostyn's (mother of 10, blog called "Owlhaven") book called "A Sane Woman's Guide to Raising a Large Family"; she writes a chapter on toys and which types have been best for their family, I had thought of writing up a post about this a while back, I thought this might be the right time to do that, with Christmas around the corner...
We steer away from the big box toys stores, and shop at the smaller locally owned neighborhood toy stores, they usually carry toys that are more educational in nature. Here's my list of favorite toys that pass the test of time:
Setting up house-
Plain ol' baby dolls, historical American Girl dolls, one doll high chair, cradle and doll bed, clothes, blankets, stroller or buggy, car carrier, dolly front pack. Play food - including baby doll bottles, a few dishes - including tea party items, ironing board and iron. The girls use cardboard boxes from our Costco trips for tables, pet beds, stove tops and ovens, and desks. I stick with classic type items, and items that simulate life. If you can, set up a little corner as the house, even little girls like having a place to nest!
TIP: They don't need one each of all the "stuff", limited storage and play space taught me this lesson - The result is that they've learned to play together sharing and taking turns, which has promoted kindness, patience and a sense of frugality.
Play sets-Specifically for girls: Calico Critters, Littlest Pet Shop, paper dolls. (our alternatives to that blonde doll who's name starts with a "B")
For all: a nice collection of fancy plastic zoo animals (the animals look like they do in real life), farming sets - including horses and a stable.
Buildling toys-
Legos, Duplos, K'nex, Lincoln logs, classic wooden blocks
Got Wheels?
Hot Wheels, trains- battery powered, GeoTrax by Fisher Price has worked well for us. Now in storage is our wooden trains that have a magnet on front and back.
Remote controlled cars - Rokenbok Sytems.
Action figures-
Playmobil (hands down the favorite here!), little green army guys, miniature die cast military air planes and helicopters.
Storage tip: I use the heavy duty Rubbermaid tubs for storage, if the tub is full and they think they want (they would say "need") more of that toy then tub gets cleaned out.
Gross Motor and outdoor play:
Jump ropes, soccer balls, baseball equipment, football, little orange cones for setting up sidelines and goals, bubbles, bikes and scooters, a wagon, sidewalk chalk, a swing (maybe a full play set if your not near parks).
Educational:
One set of wooden pattern blocks, Snap Circut set, jigsaw puzzles (we don't buy over 500 pieces, they take too long and the pieces are usually small), board games.
Art Supplies:
Crayons, markers and colored pencils, coloring books, learn to draw....books, a light table for tracing. Tempra paints, watercolors, paint brushes. The rest of our art supplies are a part of my crafting/scrapbook supplies, things like punches, stamps and ink, die cuts, good paper, stickers, fancy edged scissors etc.
Make your own toys:
"Spools"
As a seamstress, I was always giving the children my empty spools, they have quite a collection now! The favorites are the cone style from the serger thread, also included are things like the little wheel left from a roll of Sctoch tape, and from a spool of curling ribbon. They've been so creative incorporating these into their building projects, a serger cone might become part of a castle, they've also built "walls" and crashed through them with the hot wheels. I'll try and get some pics and do a post on "spools".
When in doubt remember that simple is best- steer clear of "popular" and trendy toys - they just don't stand the test of time. Buy better brands, by spending more on the toy, you'll end up with less your stash.